If you think something is bent, then something is probably bent...maybe not much, but bent all the same. 35 kph is about 22 miles per hour, and more than just a "love tap". I'd suggest you find another garage or service center to look at it.
In the meantime, you're new here, so I'd also suggest you search this Forum for likely keywords such as "bent fork" to read what other members have experienced. After all, you're not the first Bulleteer to hit something! That knowledge may help inform your future discussions with mechanics about what they might look more closely at.
Best of luck sorting her out!