I’m not sure if that post was aimed at you or me or both of us Cyril! BTW , not doubting your knowledge or skills at all. Just cogitating on possibilities!👍
Cheers Steve
PS I totally agree with the comments posted about nastiness- civility is everything.
I am not a native english speaker so sometimes i have a hard time explaining myself, and some figures of speech do not translate well.
It is actually hard to reason, the human brain is not wired for that. It is wired to follow people that think the same, to create groups, because groups have a stronger chance at survival. Evolution takes time ...
This is a known process. When someone believes in something, he is more likely to accept whatever he reads or hear that support that belief, and only doubt what does not. I am no exception, it took a lot of work to doubt even when something goes my way, and sometimes stuff still goes past that mechanism. I have some videos that explain books about it, which really helped me to understand this, but they are in French so it will probably be useless to you. If you are interested i can try to get the key ideas and books the guy develops, there surely are other videos in english that do the same.
What I meant is that everyone should question stuff when it is said without any kind of proof, especially when it support your own belief, as this is the kind of stuff we tend to give a free pass.
We are humans, we all make mistakes, and I include myself in there. I have posted stuff that was wrong too. I believe there is no shame in getting something wrong, or saying "hey you are right i was wrong". It require putting the ego a bit to the side, which hurts, a lot the first time, less the next, and after some time it does not much.
Anyway this also applies to me; if i say stuff without backing it, or if the explanation I give feels incomplete, off, or if people just do not understand, do not hesitate to doubt and ask. Improving knowledge is all about removing what we think is wrong, and accepting new stuff (that can be proven wrong too later). What i mean is do not believe blindly