With cremated remains, it sorta like a "I dont ask... they dont tell" with families taking them home.
But.... I had a gentleman that was a hunter. His buddies wanted a small portion of the remains in a separate container. They had plans to divvy up some into reloaded shotgun shells. A few months later I had occasion to see one of his hunting buddies, and asked how the reloading and the hunt that year with him went. His response almost had me in tears... "he couldn't f--k all alive.... and he couldn't hit f--k all dead"