That's the 'beauty' of this topic,as stated early on,Bob, the gov't, the religious order,atmospheric pressure,sunspots,whatever the popular excuse might be isn't
the reason for 'their' problem.....It's 'their' willingness to 'have it all' and 'right now'
at any cost.....That is the core reason....
I've had this same conversation many times with friends,acquaintances,etc.,and
the amusing thing to me is eventually,as the conversation (or debate) continues,
it will often times flush out a sympathizer of' those in plight'....In other words,one of
them,who'll attempt to justify their actions(actually his/hers) with the lame-ass
comment " Well,I want my kids to have what I never did...." or similar variation.
There's that 'sound logic' surfacing ;that core reason.......