Yes Hutch, I should have remembered that you are now living alone and been more sensitive. Good though that you have fond memories.
My better half is just that and I well know it, so tolerant that it puts the responsibility on me not to overstep things. Warm enough here that the bike can go in the shop, but we have lived in an unfinished house for fourteen years, moving in without lining or siding - step by step as they say. Have you ever found that if you just devote a short time to something each day, it eventually gets done in a shorter time than expected?
What was the question of this topic? Kind of drifted, didn't we? Oh well . . .