So my question is, how far down is it supposed be tightened? All the way?
After NGK spark plug is screwed as much as possible with fingers, use a socket and turn 1/2 to 3/4 TURNS. This will compress the washer on the spark plug to right tightness.
The reason for 'lurch and stall' - may be that spark plug cap is not firmly connected to spark plug (As Arizoni said). PUSH Down the cap on spark plug or Tap it gently a few times with the back of a screw driver until it stops going any further.
You can also check Clutch play, it may need adjustment to 2 - 3 mm.
Also check Idle setting, 1050 rpm works well.